The 7 habits of highly effective people #tytobookshare

Sekiranya kita nak gapai highest achievement in our life and overcome our greatest challage, we need to identify and apply the principle of natural law that lead us to that goal.

Most common human challenges:-

1. Fear and insecurity
-fear for future, feel vulnerable i work, afraid to apply job, afraid of losing job

2. I want it now
-i want big house, i want sport car, i want to be rich

3. Blame and victimism
-wherever you find a problem, u will usually find the finger point of blame. if only i lived in better place, if only i born n rich family, if only..if only...

4.Hopelessness
-lose hope, so lowest your expectation

5. Lack of life balance
-balance and peace of mind, make priority, focus, integrity

6. What's in t for me?
-look for no 1, life is a game, a race, a competition. schoolmate, colleagues--eat our heart.

7. The hunger to be understood
-often people listen to  reply rather than listen to understand--mutual understanding listen with sincere and deep.

8. Conflict and differences
-different  create conflict. you want to win argue

9. Personal stagnation
-4 dimensional of human nature--

body
cultural tendency-maintain lifestyle
principle-prevent disease

mind
cultural tendency-watch tv entertain me
principle-read broadly, continuos education

heart
cultural tendency-use relationship w/ others to 4ward ur personal interest
principle-deep, respect listening and serve bring greatest fulfillment and joy

spirit
cultural tendency-grow secularism
principle-to pengabdian kpd Allah

to learn and not to do is not really to learn  

to know and not to do is not really to know